I’ve always been a big Andy Griffith fan and in thinking about his passing, I remembered a 61st birthday party that my daughters gave for me in 1993. The theme was Andy Griffith and Mayberry. Mayberry fans will recognize these characters and references to incidents from various shows. This was the invitation (remember Ernest T. Bass meeting his “Romena” at Mrs. Wylie’s house?):
Quoting from my notes in my photo album, “The room was decorated with large, round, colorful decorations such as Mrs. Wylie might have put up for a party for her social group. There were big platters of dill Havarti cheese, strawberry dip, vegetable dip, potato salad, bagel chips, croissants and baguettes. There was a huge punch bowl of lemon/grape juice punch and we got to drink out of Shannon’s antique cranberry/chrome cocktail glasses.”
“All the gifts were wrapped in pretty paper with notes attached telling me which Mayberry character had sent something for the celebration.” What an array of gifts there was and the notes were priceless:
Andy wrote on official Mayberry Sheriff’s Office stationery that he was sending me one of Aunt Bee’s favorite birthday presents, a whole carton of preserving jars.
Opie sent a set of Mayberry trading cards with a note, “Paw says this is a good present for a nice lady like you. Aunt Bee helped me pick it out.”

Aunt Bee wrote about the time she left Andy alone while she visited Cousin Edgar and Andy had wound up with blisters from the hot pans, so she sent me a sturdy oven mitt.

Barney writes that Eleanora Poultice recommended two classical music tapes – A Carnegie Hall Christmas tape and another by Kathleen Battle. Barney writes that he “was going to crochet you an afghan in the North Carolina State colors, but we had that gun seminar in Raleigh and I never got around to it. Well, see you in the funny papers. Ha ha.”
This note accompanied an “I’d Rather Be Watching the Andy Griffith Show” license plate. Note the oil smudges on the paper.

Thelma Lou sent a note along with a tin of cashew fudge, “Barney and I really enjoy this when we’re watching TV.”
Floyd, the barber, sent a note that when Ellen Brown was working at his shop as a manicurist, she had left a bunch of bottles of nail polish and he sent one to me.
Ernest T. Bass had his girlfriend, Rowena, write a note explaining he was sending something he has always treasured – a rock and his gold tooth. “You are my favorite mother figure. I hope your birthday is more fun than a moonlight possum hunt.”

Daphne and Skippy, the “Fun Girls”, sent a video of a George Raft movie with a note that said, “Last time we were in town, Andy and Bernie told us about this great George Raft movie over at The Grand and you just have to make sure you see it for your birthday.”
Otis Campbell wrote that he thought it was undignified to drink out of a brown paper bag and picked up a special “Dipsy-Doodle” cup in Mt. Pilot for me to drink from.
Bobby Fleet and his Band with a Beat sent a tape of Andy doing his comedy routine from his early years.
The Darlings sent over a tape of the Dillards’ latest hits.
Clara Johnson sent a can of allspice to improve my pickles.

Malcolm Merriweather sent a beautiful English tea set of cup, saucer and “crumpet” plate.
Jennifer and Clarabelle Morrison sent a little Mason jar of their beverage “just for this special holiday (and for medicinal purposes later!)”.
Helen Crump sent a Mayberry Union High sweatshirt which the alumni was selling to raise money for the reunion ball.
The hostesses of the fun Mayberry party:

The happy 61st birthday girl!







What a fun party and your guests had such great imaginative gifts. Andy was one of the kind, loved that show. My favorite quote was from Aunt Be” I always keep a black nightie in my night stand drawer, in case of fire I can slip out of my flannel gown and put on the black nightie when the firemen come. I can’t get over how much your girls look like you.
This was a super idea! It sounds like it was a fun time and I’m so glad you got all of this documented. What great memories!
What a great party idea! Wow, this really brought back great memories. I liked Barnie’s comments the best about crocheting you something! Love it…Thanks for sharing this. I think Andy Griffith and Mayberry were great, it’s too bad our kids and grandkids don’t have wholesome shows to watch like that now.
You always have the best stories! A lot of thought and prep went in to that party and I’m sure it was greatly appreciated. Since there were a number of kitchen items…do you decorate at this time of year for Andy Griffith?
I have a spot in my basement family room where I keep all of the Andy Griffith memorabilia as well as quite a few books and DVD box sets, but I’ve never made the show one of my kitchen themes – yet. You might have given me an idea! Lillian
What a fun party!!! I am sure it was a birthday you have never, nor ever will forget.
Hugs from Holland ~
Heidi
That is such a great idea! Your family is very talented. Andy Griffith Show is one of my favorite TV shows, even today. Too bad they couldn’t find a quart of Aunt Bee’s dill pickles. Remember that episode? I have one of the Dillard’s music CD’s, too. Your blog is looking really pretty!
I love the pickle episode – we tend to refer to all pickles as “kerosene cucumbers”.
Thank you for your comments. It’s the first time I’ve changed the look of my blog since I started 5 years ago. Lillian
What a great party idea! The gifts were some funny, some practical, and all wonderful! Now definitely topped by your 80th birthday gift plan. I’m all on pins and needles to see more presents!